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I tested this
method on varieties of
people at my work place in India in the year 2002. These are the
anecdotes
as told to me, by the practitioners. The
anecdotes added in later years in USA are indicated as such. The benefits are grouped into benefits for Mind, Body, Relationships and Others. The key word describing the benefit shown bold
Mind
Control
over Anger reported
by many people Impact on ‘Children and Teachers’ Control
over Compulsive
thoughts reported by many Improvement
of Concentration
reported by soft
ware Engineers Relief form 'Depression' Relief from ‘Grief’ Reducing Job related Stress
reported by
people of diverse professions Better
Patience
and Listening Overcome Procrastination (Chronic Postponing habit) Able to Smile spontaneously in spite of very difficult conditions Turning Spiritual Relief
from Worry Relief from 'Asthma' Relief from ‘Involuntary Body movements’ Relief from stress during Dental Work Motivation for ‘Exercise’ Healthy
and bright look of 'Face' invariably seen after 6
– 9 months of practice
Reducing ‘Fatigue’ Relief from Hypertension (High Blood pressure) prevailing up to 15 years Relief/Cure
of 'Migraine'
prevailing up to 30 years Reduction of 'Obesity' (Over weight) Get ‘Sound Sleep’/relief from Insomnia - most attractive benefit for all people Reduced
Smoking rate from 20 -30
cigarettes a day to 0 to 5 Relief from Snoring Relief/cure from Stuttering (Stammering) ‘Speech’ problems prevailing up to 40 years Relief from ‘Tobacco chewing’ habit Improvement
in Poor Relationships'
prevailing up
to 20 years Turning
‘Extrovert’ Improvement in ‘Public image’
Impact on Children Benefits
for Lower Income
people Useful in Travel Attraction
for Youth who would
never even
think of Meditation Acceptability
to
different Religions and also
Atheists Benefits
to Small industries
Voluntary
Propagation of the method by Beneficiaries 1.
Person aged 43,
technical manager, was very unhappy about his anger affecting his work
relationships. He said he wanted very much to control his anger, tried
many
times but failed to find a practical way to achieve the control. In
about 4
months of starting this method he felt great relief from his outbursts
of anger.
He was practicing the method while having bath. 2.
Person 30 years,
technical manager, was getting irritated with his subordinates if they
were not
doing exactly as told. After this method, he simply could not get angry
at
them. But on the
other hand, he started
feeling that he should patiently listen to them to understand the
problems due
to which they were not doing his way. At
home, his wife also
started this method when he told her the basic method verbally. He
observed
that she became more patient with their 5 year old son. Earlier she was
getting
irritated at their son
when he
approached her for some attention while she was doing some work. But
after this
method, she became more receptive to him and started listening and
soothing
him. 3.
Person 25 years, Junior Engineer, was famous for his short temper with
his
workers. His behavior changed radically to his great relief and also of
his
workers. He was practicing only before sleep for about 6 months. 4.
Person aged 50+, chief
of security department was famous for his short temper and constant
fault
finding with his supervisors. He changed so much after this method that
his
people became happy and also his wife complimented him for improvement
of his
temper. 5. A
Chief Engineer 45
years, used to go round the various sections of his department in the
morning
and wherever his people were found lacking in performance he was
getting angry
and scolding them, losing his mental peace and also making his people
unhappy
at his loss of temper. After this practice, his anger totally
disappeared and
he started dealing with them in a more fruitful manner. 6.
One civil
contractor 35 years, was famous for his outbursts of anger on his
workers. He
also had high blood pressure and taking medicine. After this method, he
said
his anger totally disappeared. His blood pressure also had come down
reducing
his dose frequency from once a day to once in 3-4 days.
7. A civil engineer 45 years, was very famous for his outbursts of anger on his contractors and workmen. After this method, he said his anger has come down drastically and he was very happy about it. Top 1. A
homeopathic
doctor who benefited from the method, asked his patients whose
complaints had a
psychosomatic background, to practice this method. Some of them
reported relief
after practicing it.
2. A boy 9 years old learned this method
and encouraged by his mother
practiced it regularly. His mother reported that he could stop taking
his daily
medications after consulting his doctor. (Year 2008)
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1.
Person aged 50+, a
chemist, was taking a 50 mg tablet everyday for last 15 years for high
blood
pressure. Within 4 months of starting this method, he felt so much
relief that
he could reduce his daily dose to 25 mg tab once in 3 days while
checking blood pressure
regularly. His doctor was puzzled about this improvement. His total
personality
changed in work and at home. He became more responsible and less
worried at
work. He turned remarkably spiritual, sitting in meditation before his
favorite
Goddess Kali for an hour every day. 2.
Person aged 36, a
contractor, was taking medicine for high blood pressure for last 2
years. He
was very short tempered. He felt such relief due to practice of the
method,
that he felt like stopping his medicine. But on advice of his doctor he
was
taking once in 3-4 days. His anger almost disappeared for which he was
very
happy. Three
more cases of
such significant reduction of blood pressure were reported from - a Chief Engineer,
a
record keeper in a Quality control department and a security supervisor.
3. A lady who had hypertension and regularly visiting her doctor learned these methods attending my classes over several months. Whenever she visited her doctor her blood pressure was showing very high. She was determined to get over this and one day went to the doctor’s office well ahead of time and practiced counting breaths for over 20 minutes. For the first time doctor found her pressure normal as reported by her with a beaming face. (Year 2007)
Relief from ‘Involuntary Body
movements’ 1.
One person, 45
years, was in the habit of suddenly dropping his lower jaw suddenly for
a
moment while speaking to others. After he practiced this method for
about 5 months
this habit disappeared totally. He was practicing the method only after
having
his dinner for a few minutes sitting with legs folded back (a Yoga
posture)
which helps in better digestion. 2. One person 55 years was found shaking his hands involuntarily. His friend who was practicing this method saw this during a visit and told him to try the method. He met the same person again after 3 months and found the shaking of hands far less. When asked how the improvement came about that person replied ‘Thanks to your suggestion I am practicing that method when ever I feel my hands are shaking’. Relief from stress during Dental Work (USA) 1. The mother of a 10 year old boy who attended my classes told me:
My son was terrified of getting any dental
work done. I had to postpone his visits several times. After
I learned 'Counting Breaths' I taught this method to him at home and
made him practice for a few days. When he was sitting in the dentist's
chair, I sat beside him and continuously
said "breath, breath so on". For the firs time, he had his
dentist visit without the usual panic. 2. I gave the flier to the owner
of the cleaning company of 70+ years, about 2 months back. A few days back, I called her for a
business mater. At the end of our conversation, she told on her own " Thank you
for the breathing method. I was undergoing dental work a few days back. My
dentist was surprised at my unusual calmness and asked me how was it I was not
clenching my fists as I used to. I told him I was practicing a calming
technique. It was really helpful during that time. "
Impact on
‘Children’
and
‘Teachers’ 1.
One electrician who
learned this method taught it to his 2 children. They could do it
happily. Prior
to this method, it was quite a task to wake them up early morning to
make them
ready to go to school in time. He said that because of this method, his
children were waking up earlier and even waking them up. 2. I
was talking about
this method to a group of school children in their summer camp in a
garden.
They were introduced to this method by their teacher earlier. One 10
year old
girl asked me "Can I do this method when I feel tension?" Imagine a
10 year old asking this question about mental tension while enjoying
summer holidays
in a garden! 3.
This method was
introduced to 60 single teacher Govt. schools in tribal areas staffed
by
teachers managed by Seva Bharathi (a voluntary service organization).
It is
learned that 6 of the teachers are regularly practicing it. 4. In one hostel for tribal students run by Seva Bharathi this method was introduced by one of the volunteers who derived a lot of benefit from it. It is learned that 4 of the students are doing it regularly. The benefits for teachers and students are not yet known. Please
see the extensive
feedback from children and their parents ahead in this booklet. Control
over ‘Compulsive thoughts’ 1. A
feedback in the
guest book of my web site (which is now closed) from some one calling
himself
'Hopeless' - "Hi, I tried this for a
day and it is
wonderful. Something horrible happened to me some years ago and so I
have
genuine tension that would be unbearable for most people. I have been
searching
for years for some form of mind control and I think this exercise is
helping me
to a great extent in getting over the serious problem".
2. A
young security
guard reported that he used the method to stop the compulsive thoughts
about
his ex-girl friend who got married to somebody else. 3. A
lady teacher
reported that she used this method to get over the mental irritation
she was
feeling whenever a sudden heavy sound was coming from the nearby power
plant
(due to venting of excess steam). 4. A
girl college
student who is in a foreign country far away from parents for the first
time,
used it to get over the frequent memory of her father whom she was
missing for
the first time in her life. 5. A
young security
guard who joined his first job used it to get over the memories of his
parents
living far away.
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Improvement
in ‘Concentration’ 1.
Many soft ware
people told me that practicing this method improved their mental
concentration
on job. Many of them told that the method helped them forget their
programming
related thinking and get badly needed rest through sound sleep. 2.
One group of 10
soft ware designers customizing SAP software used to practice it for 5
minutes
every day before starting the work. Two foreigners visiting the team
periodically were also practicing it along with them. They said it
improved
their mental concentration in their work. 3.
One Greek soft ware
site had an entry in a discussion forum that the method was useful for
improving mental concentration. 4. A
web designer told
me that he was not able to use his daily travel time of 2 hours NJ to
NY for
reading books that he wanted to
read
badly utilizing his idle travel time. After practicing this method he
was able
to complete reading of many books effortlessly. 5.Some
people who were
practicing meditation like ‘Chakra Dhyana’ (a
method of concentrating on the
energy centers in the body) said that this method improved their
practices
significantly. Earlier, in spite of their best efforts,
they were getting frustrated due to lack of
concentration. They are now getting better returns for the time they
are
spending on the practice.
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A
person 35 years,
Engineer, was taking medicine every day as advised by the psychiatrist
doctor for
last 5 years. After he practiced this method for a few months, he felt
so much
relieved, that he totally stopped taking the medicine. He was free of
from
depression for at least 6 months since last contact with him.
Top One
person 28 years,
married an year back was concerned about his over weight. His wife was
also
pressing him to start some exercise program to reduce weight. But he
was not
inclined to do take any action. After about 2 months of practicing this
method,
he started his daily morning walks. His weight started slowly reducing.
He was
very happy that he could take action on this long standing problem
bothering
him and his wife.
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Turning ‘Extrovert’
One young chemist of 20 years said that
after he started practicing this method his old tendency of avoiding
talking to
other people changed radically. He found himself taking initiative to
have
friendly talk with people comfortably. He was very happy to see this
change in
himself. Healthy and
bright look of ‘Face’ 1.
The person aged 50
yrs, a manager, was having severe diabetes problem. He was taking
insulin twice
a day. His face was looking alarmingly sick and lifeless. After
about 6 months
of this method his face changed radically to such a healthy look, that
his wife
asked him how did it become so much better. 2. The person aged 28 yrs, Engineer, was doing this method only at night while waiting for sleep lying in bed. After about 6 months, his face has acquired a remarkable clarity and glow. He reported that his out bursts of anger at his workers totally came under his control. 3. A
lady 50 years (
Changing of face to a brighter, healthier
and calmer look in spite of original color of face,
is a common improvement seen in many
regular users of the method. I could detect the regular users of the method among the people I used to meet frequently, by observing the improvement in their faces and style of interaction with others. Note: From Jan 2005 I took close up pictures of the faces of some participants of my follow up classes - at the beginning and periodically during the classes. See how some faces changed through these links Face A Face B Face C
1. The person aged 32, my ex-gardener, used to ride a bi-cycle to and from his work place – 15 kilo meters (about 10 miles) each way. I told about this method in less than 30 minutes and he started practicing it. After about 2 weeks he said he was feeling his breath while riding his bi- cycle and he felt much less tired compared to his earlier experience. Being a manual worker for 8 hours a day, this benefit of reducing travel tiredness made him very happy. 2. People who were in the habit of walking every day for 30minutes to 1 hour as an exercise, told me that they started practicing this method while doing their walking. It made them feel as though they did not walk much. The walking time passed quickly without feeling any impatience. 3.
A soft ware Engineer aged 30 ( One teen aged boy was living with his single mother and grand mother. He was very much attached to his grand mother who gave him his favorite dishes and pocket money. She died due to illness in old age. The boy got terribly upset by her absence and started neglecting his studies. When his mother put too mush pressure on him about his studies he tried to injure himself with a broken Coke bottle. His mother shared the problem with me with great concern. I told her - to stop pressing him, to practice the method and also make her son practice it. She stopped putting pressure on him and made him do the method before going to sleep. She reported lot of improvement in her son in about 3 months. He became very positive to her advices and took up a career of a musician with his talent for playing guitar and singing. Top Relief
from ‘Job related tension’ 1. A
principal and
vice principal of a school with about 1000 students were feeling a lot
of
tension and harassed due to various pressures from parents of the
students
visiting them at school and pressing them for admissions, improvement
of marks,
so on. After
they started
this method, their response to the situation totally changed. They were
able to
listen patiently to the visiting parents and send them off with a
smile. It
was such a
remarkable change that some of
the parents complimented them for not getting irritated, in spite of
all their
efforts to put pressure on them. 2. A senior manager in a factory, aged 44 years, said he used this method while talking over phone to his factory shift–in-charges early morning every day. It helped him reduce his frustration and irritation on hearing the problems reported by them. Better
patience and ‘Listening’ 1. A
young
homeopathic doctor said he was able to listen to his patients without
getting
irritated after he started this method. 2. A
mother was found
to listen to her 5 year old son patiently when he used to interrupt her
kitchen
work after she practiced this method. Earlier she was getting irritated
and
brushing him away in such situations. 3. A
person aged 32,
was practicing chanting for 101 times a Hindu chant called
‘Gayathri Mantra’
considered powerful in improving mental capacity. He actually developed
some
powers. He rose fast from a clerical job to a supervisory job, by
acquiring
higher qualifications and performing to the satisfaction of his senior
officers. But he was a dismal listener when dealing with others. He
never allowed
any one complete their sentences. He would interrupt them half way and
cause
great irritation. His colleagues were trying their best to avoid
talking to him
unless absolutely necessary. After
he practiced
this method, he changed remarkably into a patient listener to the
surprise of
his colleagues. A
few others who had
no patience in listening to others showed significant improvement.
Top 1.
Person (male 53
years) was suffering from migraine every week lasting for a day, since
more
than 30 years. He was not taking any medicine and putting up with the
pain as
the pain killers were making him drowsy. Within 2 months of practicing
the
method, his Migraine totally stopped and did not recur even once in
last 6
months. He started practicing the method for mental comfort without
expecting
any relief from migraine. This benefit came as a pleasant surprise for
him. 2.
Person, female, 45 years
is a working lady suffering from Migraine every day in the evening
lasting for
whole night since 2 Years. She was taking a pain killer every day after
returning from work. Even then she had to twist a towel around her head
to bear
the pain. After she started this method the frequency and intensity of pain
gradually reduced. In about
4 months, she was getting pain only 2-3 times a month instead of all 30
days.
She started practicing this method when she was told it may help reduce her Migraine
pains.
3. Person, male, 35 years, was suffering
from Migraine once in 15 days lasting 2-3 days since 3 years. He was
putting up
with the pain, without taking any medicine. Within 2 months of
practicing this
method, his Migraine totally disappeared without any recurrence even
once. He
started practicing the method when told it may relieve his Migraine.
4. Person, male, 47 years, was suffering
from Migraine every day or two starting in the evening and lasting
throughout
the night since about 2 years. He was not taking any medicine. He
practiced the
method without any expectation of relief from Migraine. Now he is
getting pain
rarely and intensity is very light.
5. A lady of age 86 attended several of
my classes with the hope of getting rid of her migraines that bothered
her from
age 11 intermittently. For many years she used to take one light
medicine daily
and one strong medicine 9 pills a month, to control acute attacks. She
was very
scared of running out of the strong medicine which could be procured
only after
her doctor’s fight with the insurance company. She was very
regular in her
practice and reported after about 8 months happily that she could
reduce the
strong medicine to 6 pills a month and no longer worried about running
out of
it. (Year 2008)
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1. Two persons in
their forties reported that their pot bellies got reduced significantly
after
they made the method a habit. Asked how it happened, they told that
their food
intake had reduced. Earlier they were over eating, without any
awareness. Now
they are eating with more awareness and eating only as much as they
needed
leading to reduction of intake. 2. One industrialist told that his wife was taking more care about her weight by controlling her diet and started regular walking after she started practicing the method.
In USA 3. A person 40-50 years was acutely aware of his obvious obesity and feeling helpless. After he practiced this method mostly before sleep and just after a shower standing in the bath tub, his obese appearance significantly changed to a slimmer look, though his tummy was still prominent. 4. Gave the flier and complete booklet to the senior librarian of the local library about 8 months back. Whenever I used to come across him he was telling me that he and his wife have been practicing the method and happy about it. A few days back he told me he was practicing mostly at bed time and enjoys good sleep. He also told happily that he lost 15 pounds. Asked how it happened, he put both his index fingers at his temples pointing to his head and said "it is all here!" 5. A lady 30+ was obese and having many other health problems. She lost more than 20 pounds after she attended several of my follow up classes. She was also relieved of some of her other problems. 6. A software engineer practiced this method before sleep, traveling and frequently during the day. He told to a group in my presence that his weight was so much reduced that his pants were sliding down. This happened in spite of the fact his gym attendance was very irregular and he did not practice conscious diet control, compared to the period he was struggling to reduce his weight. 1. A
cleaner of our
office picked up a copy of the flier describing this method in local
language,
at the entry gate. When I asked him whether he tried it, he replied
that he was
already practicing it while cleaning the floor! He said he found it
useful - he
stopped smoking whereas he was smoking 10 cigarettes a day. Also
whenever idle he
was sitting at home instead of
roaming in the streets wasting his meager salary. He said he was not so
much
worried about his hungry stomach after starting this method! 2. A
young security
guard earning a low salary, with wife and a 3 year old son to take
care, was in
great financial difficulties. He was buying things for his house on
credit and
ran into many debts. When he used to reach home after a tiring duty,
his wife
used to pour out her frustrations with the creditors who were harassing
her
during the day in his absence. She could not satisfy any of them. On
hearing
all this from her on arriving home after a night shift duty, he used to
lose
his temper and would shout at her and remain aloof. Their 3 year old
son who
was watching all this was scared of his father. This was going on for a
long
time. Earlier,
on seeing
their problems, his brother-in-law offered to lend them money to start
some
side business and supplement their income. But in view of the strained
relations
between the wife and husband he was not actually coming forth with the
money. After
the security
guard learned this method in a one hour session along with his
colleagues, he
started practicing it. Due to the method, his response to her
frustration changed
radically. Instead of getting angry at her he would listen patiently
with
sympathy, and give her concrete suggestions to distribute the available
money
to particular creditors and dispose off the others in a diplomatic
manner. Seeing
the better relations
between the wife and husband his brother-in-law lent Rs 5000 (about USD
1000)
to him. With that, he started buying dresses from a wholesaler and sold
them in
the neighborhood making some extra money. His wife bought a sewing
machine and
made some money tailoring clothes. He said his whole life changed
radically
because of his practicing the method.
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over ‘Procrastination
(Postponing)’
habit 1. A
teacher said with
a smile, that after a few days of starting the method he completed a
small but
long pending job demanded by his wife which was ‘to put up a
clothes line for
drying the clothes in the yard’. It was only a job of 20
minutes but he was
postponing it for months. 2. A
food server in a company
guest house learned this method through me in 15 minutes and started
practicing
it. He told after about 4 months, that it had benefited him financially
a great
deal. He was being told for past 5 years to pay a loan on a house site
inherited by him by paying Indian Rupees 10,000/ (about USD 200). The
current
value of the site was more than Rs. 100,000 (
about USD 2000) which was a fortune
for his monthly salary of Indian Rupees 1500/ (close to USD 30). Though
he was
having the money for repaying the loan, he was feeling some hesitation
or fear
in acting on this matter for last 5 years. After practicing this method he got over his fear, hesitation or lethargy. He cleared the loan and got back the documents and now has a big fortune. His behavior changed remarkably to one of confidence, in contrast to his earlier look of hesitation and fear.
1. One person aged 47 head of a large
department was in the habit of making funny statements in meetings
which were
greeted by laughter from the listeners. He was also laughing with them
as
though he was enjoying people laughing at him. To sum up, he had the
image of a
joker. After practicing this method he gradually stopped making such
statements. Even then some people were trying to make fun of him out of
old
habit. He started reacting to their laughter by replying strongly and
silencing
the laughing people. His image as a joker changed significantly to that
of a
normal person. 2.
One person aged 56years, head of a large department, had the habit of
speaking
sarcastically and negatively during all official meetings. He used to
comment
negatively even on matters not connected with his department. He was a
pain in
the neck for his colleagues as well as his boss. He remarkably changed
after he
practiced this method. His responses became positive and he remained
quiet in
matters not related to his department. He said he practiced the method
during
all the idle periods during the meetings and kept his cool. His
official image
changed from negative to a positive one.
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by different ‘Religions
and Atheists’. 1.
My ex-secretary, a
devotee of Kalki Bhagawan was practicing 'Chakra Dhyana' for many
years. His
behavior and face showed no change. He said he was not able to
concentrate in
spite of his best intentions. After a few months
of starting this method, he
showed remarkable change in his face and behavior - listening better
and more
tolerant towards others differing from him. 2.
Devotees of 'Sivananda'
who were regular practitioners of
Puja (chanting God’s names) and Bhajan (singing devotional
songs as a group)
found this method compatible with their practices and derived benefits
from it. 3.
Devotees of Sathya
Sai Baba practicing weekly Bhajan
found this method acceptable and derived benefit from it. 4.
Devotees, young and aged, from various religions accepted this method
and
benefited from it – Hindus as cited in detail above, devout
Muslims and devout
Christians. They
said it has no link to
any religion and hence no objection to trying it or practicing it. 5. An ardent atheist had no objection to practice of this method and benefited remarkably in totally getting rid of his suffering for last 30 years from Migraine pains. Improvement
in ‘Relationships’ 1. A
person 45 yrs,
was having a strained relation with his wife from date of marriage.
They have a
teen age daughter. As
reported by him,
she was having very different expectations from him in terms of status
and
power. As these were not fulfilled by him she used to nag and humiliate
him
daily after he returned from long hours of factory work. She used to
compare
him to others getting promoted faster than him and pointing out his
inferiority. He used to react to her by getting angry and destroying
things
like - tube lights, bulbs and news papers in her presence. This was
going on
for more than 20 years. After
he started this
method, he could control his reactions to her. He was silently
listening to her
and not replying anything. She had to stop nagging him after some time
seeing
his total silence. She even used to remark 'am I talking to my husband
or the
wall?' Earlier after such an episode they were not on talking terms for
2-3
days. But these days they were talking to each other in the evening of
same
day. His
boss remarked that
earlier the person's wife was complaining about her husband every day
over
telephone. But for last few months he was not getting such calls from
her. 2.
One industrialist
practiced the method often, while traveling in his car on business
trips and
could reduce his mental tension. He could handle the pressures from his
customers better. He
verbally told his
wife about the method and forgot about it. His wife and his widowed
mother,
though closely related, were not on good terms. His wife was not
willing to
take his mother to hospital when required and he had to squeeze time
from his
busy schedule, to make these trips. After
some time he
found his wife's behavior changed. She volunteered to take his mother
to the hospital.
He feels this could be only because of her practicing the method. 3.
One security guard
was feeling very bad that he was not able to satisfy his wife's demand
for
stopping his smoking. After this method, he could discontinue smoking
totally
He was very happy that he is enjoying a happy relationship with his
wife now. 4.
An Engineer who joined
service a few months back was having a very strained relationship with
his
boss. He was so frustrated that he privately confided to me that he was
planning to resign from the job and search another one - just because
of his
problem with this boss. This
method was in
it's early stage of evaluation at that time. I told him to try the
method and
see if it would help. After about 3 weeks he reported that he was no
longer
bothered about his boss’s behavior. He was just doing as his
boss wanted him to
do even if he was not in agreement with him and forgetting about
it. Earlier, he used to argue
with his boss a lot and finally had to do as told feeling demoralized
in the
process. 5.
One person in service, aged 42, told that he was in the habit of
angrily
bursting out while dealing with his parents whom he used to visit once
a year
during his holidays. This was so remarkable that his parents were
avoiding
directly talking to him. After practicing this method his behavior
towards them
changed remarkably. H made it a point to talk to them nicely during his
visits.
He came to know through others that his parents noticed this change and
were
very happy.
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Persons from many types of jobs told that this method helped in getting sound sleep quickly in spite of their job being very stressful one. They were Engineers, Soft ware designers, Shop floor supervisors, Laboratory chemists, Quality controllers, company Guest house staff, shop floor Workers, a Clothes washer, a Gardener….so on. Getting sound sleep easily was the greatest attraction of this method for majority of practitioners. I continue to meet people who report that they practiced only to fall asleep and I can see a distinct change in their faces from non-smiling to smiling look only for this little practice. (year 2005 on). See special instructions for Insomnia 1.
One industrialist
practiced the method often while traveling during the day in his car on
business trips and gained in reducing his mental tension and in
handling the
pressures from his customers. He arranged a work shop on the method for
all his
30 workers and 2 supervisors. After some time he found a change in the
attitudes of his workers - they
were
more receptive to the various changes in working plans to cope with
business
fluctuations. They also started taking more interest in cleaning up the
work
place every day. 2.
In one paper
converting industry, the owner practiced the method and gained in being
cool in
handling his problems. He also stopped wasting his time with his
friends to
their surprise. They remarked on this change in his long standing
habit. He
also organized a
work shop of one hour for this method for his workers and staff of 25
ladies
and 18 males. Later, the owner was surprised to find that his
supervisors and
workers voluntarily started practicing the method just after the lunch
break
for 5 minutes. The immediate benefit reported by the supervisors was
that the
workers were coming for the 5 minute session promptly after lunch not
to miss
this session. The supervisors were very happy that they were relieved
of the
daily task of running after the workers to return to work spot on time
after
lunch break. They told him that it would have been better if the work
shop had
been arranged long back.
Top 1. An operator aged 45, had serious family problems. His wife had chronic mental problems and had outbursts of anger not controlled by treatment for a long time. His only son aged 26 was mentally retarded and had speech problems. He used to walk with a serious face like a statue – a personification of sorrow. After several rounds of persuasion, he started practicing the method. In about 3 months his facial expression changed remarkably. When asked last about his problems, he started crying, tears flowing from his eyes but to my pleasant surprise, he soon recovered and started smiling though the tears were still there. This I consider as the greatest achievement of this method. If a person in his condition could smile by practicing this method, any one can smile. 2.
An officer in
stores was always having a serious face - never smiling. After this
method his
face showed a smile often. 3.
Two guest house
bearers always had a tense and serious face as though they were afraid.
After
this method, their faces often showed a spontaneous smile. 4. A youngster, 20 years, in the Information systems department was always looking serious and gloomy. It looked as though he was having an inferiority complex. There was never a smile on his face. After he practiced this method his face changed remarkably with a smile showing often. H showed more confidence in talking to others. I continue to see more people whose previously grim faces show a spontaneous smile as a result of practicing ‘counting breaths’. (year 2005 on)
1.
The person, male,
age 42 years, had been smoking 30 cigarettes a day for more than 10
years. He
was a marketing man working under stressful work conditions. He used to
worry
about his work problems even after reaching home. After he started
practicing
this method, his rate of smoking slowly reduced. Over a period of 8
months his
smoking rate came down to 5 per day. He is hopeful of a smoke free day.
2.
The person, male,
45 years, used to smoke 10 cigarettes a day for last 8 years. He used
to have a
tiff with his wife over smoking. After 3 months of starting this method
he
could totally stop smoking. His relationship with his wife improved
dramatically for which he was very happy. It also saved valuable money
for him
as he was a security guard with low income. 3.
The person, male 40
years, used to smoke 4 cigarettes a day for more than 15 years. After 4
months
of practice of this method he stopped smoking on a regular basis. He
now smokes
occasionally during parties in company of friends. 4.
The person, male 30
years, used to smoke 10 cigarettes a day for more than 5 years. After 2
months
of practice of this method he did not feel like smoking. One day, when
he tried
to smoke out of old habit, he suddenly got irritation in throat and
felt an
aversion to smoking. He threw the cigarette down.
He totally stopped smoking for last 3 months. 5.
The person, male 48
years, used to smoke 10 cigarettes a day. After about 3 months of this
method
his rate of smoking came down to 3 per day. He also stopped going round
the
town wasting money and time. He now spends his spare time with his
family. 6. The person, male 42 years, used to smoke 20 cigarettes a day for more than 10 years. Over 9 months of practicing this method, his rate gradually came down and now he rarely smokes on his choice, without feeling any compulsion. One person, 28 yrs, Engineer, reported that his snoring had stopped after he practiced this method. Asked how he could tell about his own snoring, he told that earlier, he used to find his mouth dry after waking up from sleep. Now he finds no such dryness. 1.
One person said that after 4 months of practice of this method, he
could sit in
front of the image of his favorite Deity for an hour totally lost in
contemplation. He felt very happy for this development. Seeing the
sudden
development his wife asked him whether he would turn into a monk. 2.
A teen 17 years, in junior college, met me and said that he read my
full
article of 26 pages (At that time the 2 page abstract was not yet made)
in the
company library and started practicing the method. He asked how long it
will
take him to reach a thoughtless state of mind! This showed that a young
person
of his age found the method attractive enough, to try while searching
for
spiritual experience.
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1.
The person, male 55
years, was stammering from his high school age, for more than 30 years.
Within
2 months of practicing this method, his speech started improving. Over
a period
of 9 months his speech became 90% normal. Any new person talking to him
would
not feel his speech deficiency at all. He was practicing this method
even while
walking during his regular office work and during his regular morning
walks as
well. He said this problem started due to his fear of his father and
grand
father when young. It continued for 40 years even after he himself
became a
grand father! 2.
The person, male 40
years, was speaking haltingly for many years. He used to halt for a few
seconds
while speaking to individuals or groups as though he was searching for
the
right words. Over a period of 6 months of practicing this method his
speech
became remarkably fluent. 3.
Person, male 56
years, was speaking haltingly since many years as though he was
hesitating to
express his opinion. Over 3 months of practicing this method his speech
became
very fluent. 4. A
person aged 50,
was in the habit of listening impatiently and speaking very hastily. He
became
a calm listener and normal speaker after he practiced the method. He
was
practicing the method while doing his morning walking. 5. A person aged 48, used to speak in gushes of speech with agitated gestures of hands and face. After practicing this method his speaking style and gestures changed remarkably to a normal mode. This method seems to improve
self confidence,
for want of which stuttering occurs. It also seems to improve mind body
co-ordination and hastiness in speaking as evident from above
anecdotes.
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from ‘Tobacco
chewing’ habit 1. A
person aged 52
was in the habit of chewing 15 Zarda Paans* a day (* a combination of
green
pungent leaves mixed with powder of tobacco and other spicy ingredients
popular
in 2. A
person aged 45
was in same habit as above of chewing tobacco 5 times a day. Within 5
months of
practicing this method he totally stopped chewing even Sada Paan (green leaves without tobacco but
having non
intoxicating spices).
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person aged 30
years, traveling daily by local train an hour each way said he used
this method
to engage his mind and get relaxed while traveling to his work and
back. 2. A
person aged 4,
traveling daily by bus for 30 minutes a day said he used this idle time
to
practice this method and it helped him get relaxed. 3. A
person aged 40,
said he used the method while traveling by air. He used to get stressed
due to
depressurization when the plane was descending. This method relieved
his
discomfort. 4.
One person a
gardener aged 36, said he used this method while cycling to his work
for 15
kilo meters each way (about 10 miles each way). He felt far less tired
due to
practice of this method while cycling.
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1.
In a company Guest
house, the staff was losing sleep whenever demanding VIP guests were to
arrive
next morning. After practicing this method which they learned form me
verbally
in 15 minutes, they said they were sleeping happily irrespective of who
ever
may be arriving next morning. 2. A
marketing
executive was always thinking of all his office issues even while at
home - not
able to relax with his family. After this method he was able to totally
forget
about office matters and be really at home with his family. 3. A small industry owner stopped worrying about his customer pressures by practicing the method in his car while traveling on business trips. This
method was spontaneously accepted by some Graduate or Diploma
supervisors in
their twenties. They just completed college and joined a job and had
difficulty
in silently accepting orders from a boss and in getting work done by
workers as
old as their fathers or even more. They were in different jobs
– chemists,
quality controllers, shop floor supervisors, mechanical designers, soft
ware
designers....so on. They felt a lot of comfort due to practice of the
method.
They said that it helped them get rid of tension related to job and get
sound
sleep at night. A few of them even turned into propagators of the
method as a
service to society. A few youngsters were particular in taking the paper related to the method from me to give to their fathers who were short tempered. Some said it helped their fathers get better control over anger. Top
Voluntary
propagation by some beneficiaries Propagation by a wide
cross section of
people 1.
One Chemical Engineer read the 2
page flier
(pamphlet) in the company Guest house and started practicing it on his
own. He
found it very useful and is propagating it in his company and friends
in
Chennai. He read an article in ‘Hindu’ News paper
and wrote to the author about
the method giving his phone number. He got a call from the author
saying he was
a professor in IIT Chennai, 2.
One professional NLP trainer who
conducts NLP training
classes for school children teaches meditation as a part of the
program. He
adopted this method as a simple meditation practice to teach the
children. 3.
An electrician was
taking copies of the flier (pamphlet) to give to his relatives during
his home
visits. After practicing the method he said that he wasted his life not
knowing
this simple method earlier. 4.
One manager took
copies of the flier to his daughter's college and introduced to the
principal
and also gave a demonstration. 5. About 80 known beneficiaries of the method were invited to contribute Indian Rupees 50 to 200 (close to USD 1 to 4) towards the cost of printing the method in 2 pages for wide distribution to public. All agreed to contribute. Money was collected from 60 persons and 12,000 copies of the method were printed in English and the local language (Telugu). The pamphlets were displayed in custom made card board boxes at prominent places like – entry gates, guest houses, dining halls, clubs and libraries. Many people picked up the pamphlets, practiced on their own, benefited from the method and gave me feedback. Propagation
by ‘Doctors’ 1. A
Homeopathic doctor told that
this
method helped him avoid the irritation he was feeling while listening
to his
patients. 2. A Cardiologist told that this method is helping him in reducing his restlessness. He also felt it will help him control his nail biting habit. He was suggesting to his patients with heart problems to practice the method. Acceptance / Propagation by
‘Foreigners’ (non Indians) 1. A
Canadian pulp supplier to my
previous
company saw the flier in the company guest house. He took it, read it
and
started practicing it. Having found it useful he told in his next visit
that he
was urging his colleagues also to try it. He even told his Indian
business
partners to practice it. 2. I told a French chemical Engineer visiting the compa |