Sometimes we are faced with challenging situations, unable to decide anything. We feel stuck. We need a strategy to get unstuck and keep going. The following approach may be helpful.
Protect yourself with the two ‘C’ s
1. Clear mind: Seek clarity on facts. Make a reality check on the people, their actions and intentions. Keep on working in this sphere, till you feel confident that you are not imagining things. Make sure that you see people, things and the overall situation clearly, without confusion or doubt (1). Don’t speak or take any action even now. Read on for the second ‘C’.
2. Compassionate attitude: Check whether you have a compassionate attitude towards ‘yourself’ and ‘others’ affected by your words and actions. If your words and actions are not born out of compassion to everyone (everyone includes your own self), hold all speech and action. Take time to develop a compassionate attitude (2).
Now speak and act
Once you have put on these two protections around you – a clear mind and a compassionate heart, speak and act with confidence and conviction. You can’t do wrong to anyone. You won’t have any regrets. You can stand before GOD and say boldly “I did my best”. If you won’t be afraid of facing GOD, why should you be afraid of any human being?
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